Friday, December 12, 2014
Bonnie, part one
Well, I haven't written a good blog post in a while, so why start now? I just miss writing. The problem is, most of the things I think about anymore, I forget. Except the annoying things, and the ones unsuitable for publication. It's too bad, because it seems once I write a thing down, it is gone from my head. Poof. The thought no longer swirls around up there. So great. Now my good memories are gone but the bad ones are still there.
It might be a good thing if we all had an anonymous blog where we could write down every horrific thing that floats around in our brains. Never to trouble us again, it could go off into outer space where no one would ever see it. And then maybe those thoughts would be gone.
Well now wait, I do have some childhood stories left... Oh lots of bad ones, but here's a good one I've thought of lately--my old friend Bonnie. Bonnie was not my first, or last best friend. But like other friends I have had, she was much more wonderful than I could ever deserve.
We lived in a big old house in Wilmette. I have lived many places, and I have to say that rich kids can be the most psycho. Sorry if that offends anyone. Anyway, I lived there from part of kindergarten through third grade. My first couple of years or so there were spent trying, mostly unsuccessfully, to avoid being bullied. I had many different strategies for this and the whole thing is really another story.
The happy ending to that would be when one day a moving truck appeared, two doors down from my house. Not beaten down to the point of complete hermitage yet, I made my way over there to see what was up. To my delight a friendly, tall, curly-headed blond girl appeared. She was very nice to me, and it was a cold cup of water in that neighborhood. Unfortunately she, Robin--although truly an angel of light brought into our midst-- was about to pass me off to her younger sister. Alas, Robin was a year older than me; and we all who have been in public school know what that means--can't be friends.
Reluctantly I eyed Bonnie, who looked much more my speed. She was blond also, but not curly, very regular. She did not greet me with the grace and poise of her older sister. She was just a normal seemingly kind of dorky kid like me. I was not thrilled, but resigned to the fact that this was to be my new friend (after begging Robin a little bit).
I will have to tell you more about Bonnie next time. She really deserves a whole post.